Thursday, May 22, 2008
THE PAST WEEK
FIRST I WOULD LIKE TO SAY CONGRATS TO MY BOSS AND HIS FAMILY FOR THE ARRIVAL OF THEIR BABY GIRL! BOTH MOMMY AND BABY ARE AT HOME AND DOING GREAT! SHE IS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL BABY AND I AM NOT JUST SAYING THAT CAUSE HE IS MY BOSS. HE IS ONE PERSON THAT I DON'T HAVE TO HIDE MY FEELINGS OR OPINIONS FROM. HE IS GLOWING AND BEEN IN A GREAT MOOD!
TOM GOT A CALL ON FRIDAY MORNING THAT HIS UNCLE WAS IN THE HOSPITAL AND WASN'T EXPECTED TO MAKE IT. SO WHAT DO WE DO...WE BOOK THE NEXT FLIGHT OUT OF PHOENIX GOING TO CHICAGO, RESERVE A RENTAL CAR, TOM COMES HOME TO PACK, AND A FEW HOURS LATER HE IS OFF TO CHICAGO TO BE WITH HIS FAMILY FOR 8 DAYS. WHICH AS ALL OF YOU KNOW MEANS..."SINGLE MOM FOR 8 DAYS"...GLAD IT IS ALMOST OVER. UNCLE ARLON PASSED AWAY JUST AS TOM WAS BOARDING THE PLANE...HE WAS HOPING TO MAKE IT THERE BEFORE THAT HAPPENED. UNCLE ARLON WAS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON TO ALL OF US BUT HE WILL ALWAYS HAVE A PLACE IN MY HEART FOR HOW MUCH HE LOVES ZOE. SHE NEVER GOT UNDER HIS SKIN...AND IF YOU KNOW TOM'S FAMILY THAT IS QUITE AN ACCOMPLISHMENT. HE WAS WORRIED SICK ABOUT HER WHEN SHE IN FOR SURGERY, HE WOULD HOLD HER FOR HOURS ON END WHILE SHE RUBBED THE FACE OF HIS WATCH, HE ALWAYS MADE SURE TO GIVE HER KISSES...I WISH SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN OLDER AND MORE UNDERSTANDING OF HIS LOVE FOR HER. UNCLE ARLON FOUGHT A LONG HARD BATTLE WITH CANCER. HE WAS A VERY BRAVE MAN. IT IS SAD THAT IT TOOK HIS DEATH FOR HIS CHILDREN TO SHOW THEIR FACES (THE GALL OF THEM MAKES ME SICK). THEY HAVE NOT SEEN HIM OR SPOKE TO HIM IN OVER 20 YEARS. WHILE TOM HAS BEEN HOME HE HELPED CLEAN OUT UNCLE ARLON'S APARTMENT AND PACK WHAT HE WANTED TO BRING HOME (INCLUDING ARLON'S WATCH FOR ZOE). I KNOW IT ISN'T ENOUGH TIME FOR TOM TO SPEND WITH HIS FAMILY IN THIS TIME OF GRIEVEING BUT ATLEAST HE UNDERSTANDS HIS DUTIES AT HOME ALSO. I WISH THE GIRLS AND I COULD HAVE ALSO WENT HOME BUT IT WOULD HAVE COST CLOSE TO $2400 PLUS A BIGGER RENTAL CAR. HE KNOWS THAT WE LOVE HIM AND HE WOULD UNDERSTAND. HE WOULDN'T WANT US TO PUT BILLS ON THE BACK BURNER TO COME BACK HOME. WHEN WE GO HOME WE WILL BE GOING DOWN TO HIS SITE TO TALK TO HIM...I NEED TO FOR CLOSURE.
WORK HAS BEEN TOTALLY CRAZY...WE ARE STARTING TO HIT BUSY SEASON! WHEN THE TEMPS GET OVER 100 OR IT RAINS...OUR COMPANY IS NONSTOP! BUT OF COURSE NONE OF US ARE COMPLAINING BECAUSE THAT JUST MEANS MORE MONEY FOR ALL WHO ARE INVOLVED.
WELL I CAN'T WAIT FOR 11:20 SATURDAY...I GET TO BE IN THE ARMS OF THE ONE I LOVE THE MOST...
UNTIL NEXT TIME
Monday, May 12, 2008
Beautiful Weekend
Mothers day was very low key in our house this year...it wasn't a good day for me. My dad whom i lost 7 years ago in June would have been 59 on Sunday. I was totally a daddy's girl...here are a few of my most vivid memories of him...
*He would take me to his poker parties for me to make money from his buddies
*He always had time to help me with my homework
*He was always there for me when i got my heart broke
*He (almost) always came to my defense when i was in trouble
*He would take me and my brother to the race track
*I never missed a softball game that he was in
*I was with him when he had his first heart attack
*I always went with him to the golf course
*He married my mom on a cold winter night in front of my aunt's fireplace
*He always made sure that us kids never did without
*He bought me a new trapper keeper every year (when they were instyle)
*His best friend gave me the only nickname i ever had
*He always bought me pink roses for Valentines day
*He told me that i never had to learn to drive a manual...that rule still stands
*He couldn't wait to be a grandpa...he never lived to meet the grandbabies
*He wasn't my biological father but he was the best daddy i could have ever asked for
*I still smell my dad's cologne when i am having a rough time...and when i had both
of the girls
I would trade may things in this world to bring my daddy back...it was my true lesson in life that you must take care of yourself. Not just for yourself but for those people that love you and will grieve year after year because of your loss.
And to end this...a few pictures from the weekend:
Monday, April 28, 2008
weekend...
Saturday was date night and it was great. We could not have been blessed anymore in finding a good weekend babysitter. Brandy is AWESOME!! She picks up all the toys before we get home, she never calls when the girls get fussy, she is great!! We went to the movies and watched "Harold and Kumar Escape From Guantanamo Bay" it was very funny but NOT a movie for little ones! Then we went to Native NewYorker for wings and sliders...YUMMO!! Then headed out to do a little shopping and i came home with this beauty...i must be loved :)

Then sunday was mostly spent inside with the air on and the blinds closed. It was a great day to shower early in the afternoon and just hang out with the ones that you love. I also made my love meatloaf and corn on the cob. Produce is in season here in Arizona. Fresh fruit and veggies for the next 7 months!
Until next time...
Friday, April 25, 2008
ahh...it is friday!
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Date Day...
The last picture is a man made iceberg which was really cool. Alot of the kids in the display were melting their handprints into it.
We then went on a walk around down town but a Dbacks game was about to start was the streets were very busy with families headed to the ball park so we decided to hit up the HardRock cafe for a snack. The nachos there are awesome.
We then went shopping at Tempe Marketplace, Mesa Riverview and had dinner at Logan's Roadhouse before heading home for the night.
The weather here in the Valley has been PERFECT! It has been in the mid to high 80's during the day and dropping into the 50's at night.
Last night while we were at dinner we got some great news! Tom's brother and sister-in-law finally got an offer on their house in Indiana!! This is one step closer to having our favorite family members closer to us. We hope that all goes well and they will soon be on their way to "the valley of the sun"!
Today has been a very laid back day. All of us got up this morning and went grocery shopping. Then we have been catching up on some cleaning, watching some of our favorite shows, laying around and tonight we will be grilling out for a simple dinner with hardly any clean-up...my favorite for a sunday evening.
until next time...
Wednesday, April 02, 2008
Where have we been....????
Monday, March 10, 2008
LIFE...
THE WEATHER HERE IS BEAUTIFUL...80 TODAY AND SUNNY. THE GIRLS PLAYED OUTSIDE MOST OF THE DAY YESTERDAY...UNTIL LITTLE MISS ZADA DECIDED TO SPILL HER YOGURT DRINK ON THE PATIO AND PLAY IN IT! EWWW! BUT IT WAS ALMOST DINNER TIME AND BATH TIME ANYWAYS. ZOE LOVES TO MAKE HER WAY OUTSIDE WITH ZADA AND JUST SIT IN THE SUN.
SATURDAY WE WENT OUT TO DINNER WITH FRIENDS...GREAT TIMES! I GUESS I DRANK A LITTLE MORE THAN I THOUGHT. I WAS DRUNK DIALING AND DIDN'T KNOW IT UNTIL THE NEXT DAY WHEN MY SISTER IN LAW CALLED TO TELL ME THAT SHE LOVED ME TOO...I WAS LIKE WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT...THEN SHE TOLD ME! I WAS SO EMBARRSSED. I WASN'T SICK THE NEXT DAY SO THAT JUST GOES TO SHOW THAT I HAD A GREAT TIME WITH NO BACKLASHING!
CAN'T WAIT FOR THE FAMILY TO COME TO TOWN...WHAT IS IT...25 DAYS!! WOO HOO!!
LOVE...UNTIL NEXT TIME :)
Monday, March 03, 2008
March 3, 2008
The hustle and bustle at work i do believe will never come to an end. I am starting to delegate more work to free up some of my time. It seems to be working well! (Thanks Mari...love ya!) I still have plenty to keep me busy for my 10 hours a day but now i can concentrate and do the job the way i want to do it.
The girls are growing fast...I KNOW I NEED TO POST PICTURES! This coming weekend we are suppose to go get easter pictures taken but i am not so sure on that now... Last friday Zada fell and busted out one of her front teeth! We are getting a cap put on it but they have to wait till the "stump" of the tooth comes out further so there is something to attach the cap to.
Yesterday i want to the spa and got my toes and nails done. It was so nice to sit in the pedicure massage chair for almost an hour! Of course it was no fun for Tom since he was home with both of the girls but i was dying for some time away. Sometime to gather my thoughts, relax, sometime to VEG...LOVED IT. And my toes are super cute! My nails...well they look the same as always...but good :D.
Tomorrow I am going in to get 3 teeth cut out! OUCH! But i have been putting it off and now that i have dental ins. there is no reason to put it off...atleast that is what the hubby says :(. Oh well that is part of life. Today we started a diet at work...i am starving i am not going to lie at all...but i know it will be worth it in the end. Ever tried fat free pringles?? Pretty tasty i must say!
Friday, February 29, 2008
WORK...
ON THE WAY TO WORK THIS MORNING I WAS TALKING TO ZADA ABOUT FRENCH FRIES (DON'T ASK)...I PULLED INTO JACK IN THE BOX TO PICK HER UP A BREAKFAST KIDS MEAL THAT CONTAINED BLUEBERRY FRENCH TOAST STICKS AND HASHBROWNS...A FEW OF HER FAVS. I HANDED IT TO HER IN THE BACK SEAT, SHE SMILED HER BIG SMILE AND SAID "THANK YOU MOMMA I LOVE YOU" I WAS TOTALLY OVERCOME! SHE IS A GREAT 2 YEAR OLDS...IT IS ALWAYS PLEASE, THANK YOU, EXCUSE ME...JUST A GREAT MANNERED KID. I AM SO THANKFUL THAT I AM ABLE TO PROVIDE FOR MY KIDS THE WAY THAT I DO. I CAN GIVE THEM SOMETHING AT THE DROP OF A HAT AND NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT IT. I WISH THAT EVERYONE IN THE WORLD WAS ABLE TO PROVIDE THEIR FAMILIES THIS WELL. I AM NOT SAYING I AM RICH...I AM NOT SAYING THAT WE DON'T EVER STRUGGLE...I AM VERY COMFY IN THE SITUATION THAT WE ARE IN.
WORK HAS BEEN VERY BUSY...EVEN REQUIRING ME TO TAKE WORK HOME OR STAY A LITTLE LATE. BUT I KNOW IN THE END WHEN ALL OF THESE LITTLE PROJECTS ARE OVER WE WILL BE SMOOTH SAILING...THAT IS UNTIL THE BOSS FINDS SOMETHING ELSE TO KEEP ALL OF US BUSY.
WE WENT ON A BIKE RIDE LAST NIGHT AND THAT WAS "MUY BUENO". LOVE THESE ARIZONA SRING NIGHTS!! 75...ON THE BIKE WITH THE LOVE OF MY LIFE...THE BABIES AT HOME WITH MAWMAW IN BED...NOT A CARE IN SIGHT...LOVE IT
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
WE ARE STILL ALIVE...I PROMISE
FAMILY WILL BE COMING INTO TOWN THIS WEEKEND. IT SHOULD BE A GOOD TIME TO KICK BACK AND RELAX. THE WEATHER HAS BEEN BEAUTIFUL AND I HOPE TO ENJOY OUR NEW PATIO AS MUCH AS I CAN BEFORE THE HEAT HITS 100. OUR NEW PLACE REMINDS ME SO MUCH OF HOME...IT IS OUT IN THE COUNTRY, SURROUNDED BY FIELDS...I LOVE IT.
WELL I WILL UPDATE MORE LATER ON...TOOTLES.
Saturday, December 29, 2007
~*~Our Christmas~*~





Tuesday, November 27, 2007
GRAND CANYON
SO WE WENT TO THE GRAND CANYON FINALLY!! GRANDPA GARY WAS HERE AND WE ALL DECIDED THAT IT WOULD BE FUN TO TAKE THE GIRLS UP THERE FOR SOME FRESH AIR...WELL I WASNT THINKING "ICE COLD FRESH AIR". IT WAS ONLY ABOUT 42 DEGREES IN THE HIGH COUNTRY WHERE AS DOWN IN THE VALLEY IT IS STILL ABOUT 75 DURING THE DAY! THE GIRLS WERE SUCH TROOPERS EVEN WITH THE COLD WEATHER. THE BIGGEST PART OF OUR TRIP WAS THAT ZOE STARTED HOLDING HER OWN SIPPY CUP WHILE SITTING UP!! THIS WAS A HUGE FEAT IN THE LIFE OF ZOE!! ZADA OF COURSE STUCK NEXT TO GRANDPA GARY AND DADDY THE WHOLE TIME. SHE WOULD SIT IN HER STROLLER RIGHT AT THE EDGE...UMM...NOT ME! IT HAS BEEN SO GOOD HAVE GARY HERE. FOR THE NEXT FEW DAYS HE IS IN CALIFORNIA BUT WHEN HE COMES BACK WE GET TO SPEND A FEW MORE DAYS AND THEN IT IS BACK TO INDIANA FOR HIM :(. WE WILL TRUELY MISS HIM. THE GIRLS HAVE BEEN SO SPOILED SINCE HE HAS BEEN HERE BUT I WAS EXPECTING THAT.
Thursday, November 22, 2007
THANKSGIVING
WE PLAN TO HAVE A VERY BUSY WEEKEND SINCE WE HAVE 4 DAYS OFF AND A HOUSEGUEST THAT IS UP FOR JUST ABOUT ANYTHING. HE WOULD NEVER ASK US TO TAKE HIM PLACES OR DO THINGS FOR HIM...AND THAT IS EXACTLY WHY WE ARE GOING TO DO IT. THIS MAN WOULD GIVE A STRANGER HIS LOST DOLLAR IF THEY NEEDED IT MORE THAN HIM...HE HAS BEEN THRU ALOT OF STRESS IN THE PAST YEAR AND WE ARE JUST HOPING TO GIVE HIM A LITTLE BREAK AND SPOIL HIM TONS!
THE GIRLS ARE LOVING IT! AND SNOWBALL TOO!
WELL HERE ARE 5 THINGS I AM THANKFUL FOR:
1-MY FAMILY
2-MY HEALTH
3-MY JOB
4-TOM'S LOVE
5-WONDERFUL DOCTORS FOR MY LITTLE PRINCESS
WHAT ARE YOU THANKFUL FOR??
HAPPY TURKEY DAY EVERYONE!! GOOBLE GOOBLE!!
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
September 12, 2007
Anyone who knew me as a child knows why this picture is posted...i was always falling asleep at the dinner table. But this time with Zada it was a tad different...she was only having a snack and she had just woke up from a 3 hour nap! Can anyone say growth spurt! This child is eating us out of house and home.
Tom started a new job and it really seems to be working out well for all of us! He is still working long hours but it is early in the day...he beats us home! It is a nice change of pace. He has even been showing off his cooking skills the past few weeks and that i really appreciate. It is hard to work a full day, drive home, make dinner, bathtime and then off to bed you go with no quality time.
My job is still very busy and now that contract renewals are up it gets even more hectic for me and the boss. Good thing he is a good guy and understand when people get tired, hot and moody once in a while.
Also wanted to send a congrats out to the Bauman family who will be adding another addition to them in early March...they are uber cute...all 4 of them! Let's just all pray for a healthy baby and ask for a babygirl for those two boys to look after :).
until next time....
Sunday, September 02, 2007
i can't believe she is three...
Sunday, August 26, 2007
The Hubsters New Toy
Sunday, August 19, 2007
my weekend so far...

Sunday, August 12, 2007
Sunday August 10, 2007
Well it is time to get dinner started. Tom should be on his way home shortly and i want dinner done and cleaned up by 7pm...so i better get on the ball.